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1. You don't know what to do. 

Do you struggle to know the right way to flirt, pursuestart conversationsask for a number, and manage texting and phone calls to ensure more dates and repeat dates?

With the right techniques, you won't need to hesitate when an opportunity to engage an attractive man or woman presents itself (whether in person or using dating apps and social media).

You can engage in a natural, low-pressure, and meaningful way that motivates the opposite sex to reciprocate. As you confront your fears and anxiety, you will feel more confidence and handle rejection so well that you will appear more desirable, too.

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2. You can't find desirable singles to date. 

In our modern dating world, it can feel impossible to find quality singles. However, with 40% of the adult population being single, those you desire are everywhere. You simply need to shift your perspective and be prepared to take action. You can have multiple dates each week when you are ready to: 

Fortunately, your challenges in these areas can be changed because the problem is not you—It's your technique! You can change your ineffective dating behaviors, when you know what to do and develop a resilient and playful attitude about approaching singles with the goal of making others feel great (while looking great, too).

You can seize the moment, read the appropriate social cues, have fun, appear confident, and connect meaningfully with others, too.

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3. You get friend-zoned. 

Like other singles, you may struggle to get the phone numbers, texts, return calls, or dates you desire. Instead, you may be told you are so-nice or let's be just-friends

When this is the case, it is important that you present yourself with more confidence, classy, and charm while becoming less available (so you leave them wanting more, and they can not take you for granted). This will make them curious about your happy, confident, and busy attitude, which will get their attention more than being excessively available,  responsive, or needy.

When they see that others want your attention, they will begin to worry about whether they can get and keep your interest instead of feeling overly confident that they already have you (without earning that privilege first). To get your time and attention, they need to treat you as a priority, which helps you to avoid several common dating traps. This shouldn't appear demanding or critical but inviting and confident. 

Additionally, you need to ensure mutual chemistry and excitement through a variety of nonsexual touches and simple affection while also taking the pressure off (so they can focus on the fun you are having instead of overthinking their feelings or your expectations).

Your intentions will not be misunderstood, especially when you look for the appropriate social cues and body language to reveal their interest. Everyone wins when you use good skills for having fun, making others feel great, healthy communication, and exuding confidence. And if you get rejected, you can handle it so well that they reconsider. 

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4. You're too nice and accommodating, so others undervalue you.

If you are in the unfortunate position of being treated like. a good-for-now option, you need to understand how being too nice turns others off and is part of the problem. 

When you don't communicate your feelings, needs, and opinions or say no when needed, others will find you to be boring. When they learn that there are no consequences when they take you for granted, you lose their respect and investment.

Speaking up and making yourself important in a relationship trains others to treat you well (especially when it is apparent that you won't stick around if they don't). This level of self-respect ensures their ongoing investment while repelling those who are insincere. 

Thus, when you become secure in your worth and confidently wait for their investment, you increase their empathy and participation in your happiness. 

You don't need to wait for the right time to make changes in your relationships. With the right techniques, you can invite others to participate more meaningfully while also setting better boundaries. You can feel and act secureexpress your needs with confidence, expose those who are bad newsavoid common dating traps, and get more commitment, affection, and investment, all while acting warm and respectful.  

Take advantage of the skills mentioned above. It's time to show others that you only give the best of you to those who invest in you!

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5. You experience frequent rejection.

You, like many other singles, may experience unexplained and frequent rejection and struggle to know why. Some rejection is normal and unavoidable, but it can also be because you aren't making people feel great, you're trying to date singles who are more attractive and accomplished than you, or you're misreading social behavior.  

When approaching someone you hope is single, you can not know if: you will be their type, they are in a relationship, they are coming out of a breakup, or they will be flattered and interested. You can, however, make the most of each situation by creating an unforgettable impression.

When you consistently engage in improving your level of attractiveness through investing in your clothing, hairstyle, and personal happiness, you show others that you value yourself, which makes them value you more, too. Additionally, you will rarely flirt when they look good, but you will flirt or pursue them when you look good. 

As you develop a greater understanding of the 17 Secrets to Male and Female Psychology, you will appreciate the other person's needs and find appropriate ways to make them feel great during your brief, natural, and confident encounters.

Even when a woman (or man) needs to reject your invitation to continue the conversation, it can feel flattering to be pursued by someone who is confident, especially when they handle rejection well. Being prepared with a classy response to rejection makes it less likely you will be rejected. Additionally, everyone wins when you look great and make them feel great, too. 

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You have nothing to lose (except your fears, anxieties, and ineffective patterns) and everything to gain!

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6. You can't keep someone's interest beyond the first few dates.

Your problem may not be with getting first dates. Instead, you may struggle with achieving repeat dates and committed relationships. It is confusing and frustrating not to know what you're doing and why others are turned off. You may also worry that your issues are too much to handle or you can't trust others to do what it takes to be in a relationship.

As you learn to navigate the early stages of dating and avoid the common dating traps and thinking errors that are driving others away, you will reduce your anxiety while also preventing the intensity that cause too much pressure.

Overthinking dating and making snap decisions to save you or others from wasting each other's time is a common problem. It ensures that everyone has no mindset instead of an open and fun philosophy.

You can create a secure foundation that makes you more desirable and helps others to relax, too. You can feel more faith and confidence in the goodness of the opposite sex. 

 When you create dates that explore your interests, each date will feel more satisfying. Not only will this make you more attractive, but it will change your dating experiences into shared experiences that you both enjoy. 

YOU CAN achieve a fun and natural, COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP.

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7. You don't feel excited about the people who are interested in you. 

Like many singles, you may struggle to feel excited about those you date and don't know why. This can occur immediately or within a few weeks or months. Your growing indifference can cause you to act passively when dating or once in a relationship. In time, you can feel consumed with doubts or worries about settling. This can occur even when your partner is amazing. Your nagging fears of missing out (or FOMO), comparing your partner to an ex, or believing that the relationship must not be right because you don't feel the excitement you expect can feel impossible to ignore.

As you come to understand how common anxious and avoidant attachment patterns are and what drives them, you will feel empowered and hopeful. The anxiety, thinking errors, pressure, and situational triggers that drive you to disconnect can be overcome. Often, the problem isn't you or your dating partner's issues but these underlying forces. You can experience the strong emotions you desire. Creating a secure attachment is a skill that you can learn. 

Likewise, your dating partner will often benefit from what you are learning. Their anxiously attached behaviors, attitudes, and even obsessions over commitment can become more balanced when you discuss these principles.

Since you long for strong emotions in relationships, you need to understand how these reflect the times when you had an anxious or unhealthy relationship rather than a healthy or secure one. Until you actively engage, you will not create the passion you desire.  

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8. You unknowingly push others away.

Many singles are told that others don't pursue them because their accomplishments are too intimidating. Rarely is this the case. Most often, they are sending push-away or stalemate messages rather than clear invitations for closeness.

Thus, you may think you are doing your part when you are actually being too cool, distant, busy, or passive and leaving the other person to make up the difference. This makes them question your interest. The real cause may be that you are shy, fear being vulnerable, or don't want to appear needy, but that isn't how they see it. Your lack of interaction and failure to make them feel great makes them uncomfortable, and so they don't flirt with or pursue you.

You can make your interest known in a confident, warm, and engaging way that encourages others to participate and reciprocate. Knowing the best way to play your role will not only get you more dates but also give you greater confidence while also showing the vulnerability and empathy that are required to nurture relationships. 

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If you haven't started your 5 DAYS FREE, what's holding you back?

  

We've helped those who:

  • can't get the attention of those they want to date
  • rarely get excited about those they meet
  • struggle to get repeat dates
  • don't know where to meet singles
  • are sick of dating apps
  • want to meet like-minded individuals
  • are working professionals
  • need to balance dating and parenting
  • are on the autism spectrum
  • don't date much
  • suffer with shyness or social anxiety
  • experience frequent rejection
  • don't know how to date
  • experience frequent and unresolved conflict
  • fear getting into toxic, abusive, manipulative, unfaithful, or addicted relationships
  • want to identify the red flags in three dates or less
  • aren't feeling what they think they should
  • can't commitment
  • experience excessive doubts
  • worry about making a mistake
  • need better communication and conflict resolution skills
  • are between 20 years old and 70 years young
  • want to date others of their faith
  • need help with long-distance relationships
  • are recovering from grief, divorce, or trauma and need to know how to date again

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We are excited to join your lasting love journey. 

We love watching singles and couples transform their lives! Our content and services are unlike anything you've ever seen before! Get ready for real results. After all, it's not you! It's your technique! We will give you the skills you need to succeed! 

Anyone can get a different result when they know what to do! With 30 years of experience, we are exceptionally good at addressing every dating, relationship, and real-life struggle that singles and couples face. 

We've helped thousands of singles and couples to experience healthy and satisfying relationships. We will help you, too!

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  • hundreds of techniques for  every dating and relationship situation
  • winning online and social media suggestions for making a lasting impression
  • options for one-on-one coaching
  • self-assessments for clarity about what you need in a relationship
  • feedback, goals, challenges, and rewards for motivational support
  • insights into your dating and attachment patterns
  • encouragement of faith in self, the opposite sex, relationships, and your spiritual or religious beliefs
  • supportive community and group circles (with others in your situation)
  • weekly live Q&A sessions with Alisa Goodwin Snell
  • interactive team of specialists
  • respect for privacy, anonymity, and safety
  • accountability and follow-through for lasting patterns and results

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Meet the minds behind the Lasting Love Academy.

Alisa Goodwin Snell, M.A.

With more than 30 years' experience as a Marriage and Family Therapist and Dating & Relationship Strategist, is it any wonder that Alisa Goodwin Snell, M.A., is the nation's leading expert? 

Lasting relationships don't come from luck, great genes, or a big bank account. They come from transformational dating and relationship strategies. Alisa knows, "It's not you—It's your technique!" And she's created an exclusive education experience that delivers those necessary techniques and strategies to men and women alike ... read full bio

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Todd Goodwin

Todd Goodwin's love and passion for what Alisa has created have driven him to take everything she knows and deliver it to the ever-growing, changing, and worldwide generation of singles and couples who long for lasting love and don't know how to find it. Now 26 years old, he, too, has benefited from the theories and techniques of the Lasting Love Academy.

Todd's degree in psychology and family studies and extensive training make him an excellent resource for your dating and relationship challenges.  

 

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Together, they are industry leaders with passion and an innate ability to clearly see the obstacles that prevent a person from succeeding in their dating and relationship pursuits. Alisa and Todd do so without any of the fluff and hype that's so prevalent in the industry today. Just tried and true techniques—For Real People, Real Life, Real Love! These techniques have benefited thousands of singlescouples, and families for over 30 years! They will help you, too!

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